Hello, I reached out to the seller (Tabitha) and she said she will work with me on getting the outfit more to CRL:
I fully understand. I have worked on the pattern and have changed the sleeves so they are fuller/longer. And I agree about the veil. When I get to that point, I can send you pictures so you can make sure it looks right. I don't mind you sharing your concerns. Please let me know and I will try to get you the best information about what I'm doing that I can to set your mind at ease. Sincerely,Tabitha
So it does seems that she genuinely wants to help put things right. I'll let you all know how it turns out, I took the gamble.